The Meaning of Life…

The greatest task for any person is to find meaning in his or her life. 

That meaning may come from work (doing something significant), in love (caring for another person), and in courage (exhibited during difficult times). 

 Things beyond your control can take away everything you have except one thing, your freedom to choose how you will respond to a situation. 

 Life has meaning under any condition, even miserable ones. 

 Don’t aim at success – the more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. 

 Success is like happiness, it cannot be pursued; it must come afterward and it only does so as the unintended side effect of one’s dedication to a cause greater than oneself or as a by-product of one’s surrender to a person other than oneself. 

 Happiness and success must happen by not caring about them. 

 Do what your conscience commands you to do and then do it to the best of your knowledge. Then in the long run, success will follow you because you have forgotten to think about it. 

 Pleasure is a by-product and is destroyed and spoiled to the degree it is made the goal itself. 

 We as humans must have the dynamic tension that is created by the never-ending quest to be more than we are. 

 We must never arrive at the destination we desire, for then life will have no further purpose for us. 

 When we stop growing, we die.

What I love and what I believe…

 I believe that the best way to understand a person is to ask them what they love as well as what they believe to be true. So in keeping with that spirit…let me introduce myself!

I love:

  • Pizza on Friday nights.

  • Bookstores on a rainy day.

  • My Mom.

  • Washing my car.

  • How jet dry makes your wine glasses sparkle out of the dishwasher.

  • Having waitresses call me “darlin”.

  • Looking for God in everyday situations.

  • Balancing my checkbook to the penny.

  • Jets that fly over stadiums before football games.

  • Being patriotic.

  • September.

  • Laughing till I cry.

  • Listening to smooth jazz in the background of a regular day.

  • Walking through the airport listening to your favorite music on an iPod.

  • Window seats on an airplane.

  • Great conversations over wine.

  • Fireplaces.

  • Walking at night in the snow.

  • Traditions.

  • The people of Africa.

  • The way music moves your soul.

  • The morning.

  • 4 day weekends.

  • A beach bar.

  • A little bit of sunburn.

  • Paying people’s toll on the 400.

  • USAA.

  • Toyota.

  • American Express.

  • LL Bean.

  • Buckhead Church

  • Bagpipes.

  • The first sip of wine.

  • The sound of a sax.

  • High thread count sheets.

  • Crystal blue sky.

I believe:

  • All people are good…if you give them a chance.

  • God wants to express Himself through us…not only to us.

  • In happily ever after.

  • Men should always open doors and walk between a lady and traffic.

  • I don’t have all the answers.

  • Men are quietly hurting and searching for themselves.

  • We create our destiny.

  • Keep your focus on God and the rest will take care of itself.

  • We don’t ask children good questions and therefore we don’t learn from them.

  • In good manners.

  • The Bible is the inspired word of God.

  • In friends and family.

  • If you want something in life…give it!

  • We all take ourselves WAY too seriously!